Today's update from CWY Holdings?

Nothing. Not a thing.

Yesterday they informed us that if the sellers updated financials were not received by Bank of America within 48 hours the file would be closed. They noted that the next follow up date would be today. We received no notification via their QuickBase system that any follow up was done.

Now, one would assume that means they did not follow up. Likely tomorrow they will reply to my realtor's e-mail with some explanation that they really did follow up but forgot to update the notes.

By all rights tomorrow is D-day. Tomorrow is 48 hours and if Bank of America does not reflect that the seller's updated financials have been received then technically tomorrow the file will be closed.

My husband didn't seem fazed by this. He said "Fine, let them give us our earnest money back then so at least we can move on our merry way."

I say, if they close the file after we have been in escrow for four months, after we have moved out of our home into a rental because we have found tenants, after we have waited, and waited and waited I will be ripped off. RIPPED OFF.

Not because we aren't already pursuing other possible options (none have come through at this point so honestly we still have all our eggs in this basket) but more because I was so innocently optimistic about this file from the get-go. I naively wanted to believe that all those horror stories that I read on those chat boards were just vindictive people who were probably ill-informed about how the process was going to work.

Now who's the pot calling the kettle black?

Four months ago I believed that we might be able to close this short sale within five months. I hoped that we would be living in the new house by Halloween- my all time favorite holiday. Now we will not be living anywhere but our rental for Halloween - and possibly Thanksgiving and Christmas too. All of our holiday decorations are packed up in a POD and it isn't even as if I have anywhere available to decorate in our rental as we have every corner crammed with stuff that was too valuable to risk packing in a storage POD.

Not to sound jaded or anything, but we don't even think that this Bank of America short sale will ever go through. We feel we could wait out three or four more months and possibly still not get short sale approval. It isn't for the fact that it is a short sale- I mean, in our line of work we are seeing short sales approved and get to the finish line all the time. It's just that for every ten I see close maybe only one of them is a BofA. And for that one BofA approval I can also see a contract that took at least seven months to get to the finish line. If only I had known this when we wrote the contract!! At that time I had no reason to have tracked any sort of short sale information for loans that we were closing. I mean, I saw short sales come in the door, and I saw them close.

Again, I was naive. I was optimistic. I am over all that. I just want to move on- I just want to find some permanent closure to this terrible, terrible home-buying experience. We are hoping to hear tomorrow night on the other short sale that we wrote an offer on- and insanely we are hoping that they will accept our offer.

As if we haven't had our fill of short sale nightmares.